A MarketWatch reader writing to advice columnist Quentin Fottrell described feeling emotionally and financially drained while trying to secure appropriate senior housing for a cousin with no income.
The cousin, who is in good health but struggles with daily life management, depleted the money left to him by his parents 15 years ago. The writer noted that he spends significant time away from his own family, covering costs for gasoline and meals as he assists him.
Complicating the situation is the cousin’s sister, who co-owns several acres of property with him. According to the reader, she resides in a different state and possesses substantial wealth, having inherited the majority of their parents’ sizable estate. The writer questioned whether it is unreasonable to expect her to contribute to his care given her financial advantage.
Legally, he has no claim. Emotionally, her refusal shows a lack of family loyalty. A tough spot for everyone involved.
Seventeen years of depletion is tragic. It makes sense he feels burnt out after carrying this alone for so long.
Does the cousin even want to move? I hope his wishes are prioritized over family disputes or legal entitlements.
Financial fairness matters here. If she inherited the bulk of the estate, contributing to care seems like the right thing to do.