During a tense Wednesday night National League Division Series matchup between the Los Angeles Dodgers and the Atlanta Braves in Atlanta, an unexpected ethical controversy erupted from the stands.
Tuesday evening, a young man wearing a Dodgers jersey fielded a foul ball in the seating area. As is common in the era of smartphone ubiquity, a spectator nearby recorded the moment and felt compelled to urge the catcher to hand the ball to a young boy, approximately preschool-aged and dressed in a Braves uniform, seated just a few rows behind.
However, the fan chose to retain the souvenir. Looking directly into the camera lens, he informed millions of social media viewers that he was keeping the ball. “I’m sorry, I can’t! I’m not giving it to the kid! I feel bad, but I’m not giving it to the kid,” he stated, sparking a wave of online criticism.
While some commentators lambasted the man for his choice, others criticized the young boy for appearing disappointed by the outcome.
NPR’s Scott Simon, writing in his “Simon Says” column, prompted readers to consider their own responses to such a scenario. Acknowledging that as a father he would likely give the ball to a child, Simon also noted the practical reality that memorabilia often ends up forgotten under beds or lost among other clutter.
Furthermore, the potential value of the ball varies significantly depending on the play. While a standard foul ball serves as a decent keepsake, a home run hit by a star player like Shohei Ohtani could hold investment value comparable to a Picasso masterpiece.
Seeking philosophical guidance, the column consulted Nancy Sherman, a Professor of Philosophy at Georgetown University. Sherman remarked, “Manners are not morals,” expressing concern more over the public shaming of both individuals than the act itself. She noted that neither party knew their private reactions would soon become a digital moral exercise.
Sherman defended the catcher’s honesty, stating, “The young guy who caught the ball says, ‘I’m sorry…I feel bad, but I’m not giving it to the kid.’ I think that’s a healthy, honest response.”
An Ohtani playoff ball? That’s straight-up investment grade, not just a plaything.
Manners really aren’t morals. The kid’s mom shouldn’t have made it a production.